(Tameer-e-Millat School students ki sirf academic nahi, character identity bhi build karta hai)
Aksar hum yeh kehte hain:
“Main topper banna chahta hoon”
“Main successful banna chahta hoon”
Lekin Atomic Habits ka sab se powerful lesson yeh hai ke goals se pehle identity badalni hoti hai.
Example samjho:
Aik student kehta hai: “Main exam pass karna chahta hoon.”
Aur doosra student kehta hai: “Main aik responsible student hoon.”
Dono me farq sirf lafzon ka nahi, soch ka hota hai.
Jab tum apne aap ko “responsible student” maan lete ho, to:
- parhai naturally hoti hai
- late uthna kam ho jata hai
- excuses khud hi kam hone lagte hain
Atomic Habits yeh sikhati hai ke har chhoti aadat aik vote hoti hai tumhari identity ke liye.
Jab tum roz parhte ho, tum vote dete ho ke “main parhne wala student hoon.”
Jab tum roz late hote ho, tum vote dete ho ke “main careless hoon.”
Aaj ka simple action:
👉 Apne aap se yeh poochho:
“Main kis type ka student banna chahta hoon?”
Phir sirf aik chhoti aadat choose karo jo us identity ko support kare.
Personal line:
Main ne khud goals se zyada identity par focus kiya, tab ja kar consistency aayi.
Kal hum dekhenge ke achi aadat shuru karna itna mushkil kyun lagta hai, aur us ka simple solution kya hai.
👉 Kal ka blog miss mat karna.